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Forgive or not forgive, it's their personal choice by OverusedCupcakes Forgive or not forgive, it's their personal choice by OverusedCupcakes
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It irritates me when some people force others to forgive, especially if they were victims of a crime like rape, one of their loved ones was murdered, or have/had boyfriends/girlfriends/spouses who are abusive and let their own families starving. And if the victims refuse to forgive, they start to insult them and/or tell them that 'it's your own fault' or 'not forgiving is a sin and you'll go to hell' (Not everyone has the same religious beliefs, like it or not.).

I know that forgiveness is good and all that jazz, but PLEASE, don't shove it down their throats nor make them feel like pieces of shit because they refuse to forgive their wrong-doers. :stare:


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NatariSaru Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2015  Student Traditional Artist
Tell this to all the fuckheads who bitched at :iconassclownfish: over 3 of his child abuse stamps as well as the people who bitch at adults who post unpleasant obituaries of their deseased abusive parents or don't want their children to meet their abusive grandparents.
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SilentRisingSun Featured By Owner Mar 1, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
If people shouldn't be forced to forgive, then they shouldn't be forced to apologize, either; it's their decision.
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legendofspyrothedrag Featured By Owner Dec 7, 2013
I was fighting with someone in dA's forums....guess what?
after all what he said on my family, he STILL expect me to forgive him. :facepalm:
after I almost exploded from anger, and told him I'm not gonna fogive him (MAYBE, but later) guess what he said?
"so  this is how muslims are. cut people's heads is okay but no peace? sad. blocked"
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HollyTheBlackCat Featured By Owner Mar 25, 2015  Student Digital Artist
And who is this "someone"?
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:iconlegendofspyrothedrag:
I can't remember.
Even then I wouldn't show his name.
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HollyTheBlackCat Featured By Owner Mar 26, 2015  Student Digital Artist
Why?
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:iconlegendofspyrothedrag:
First, because I forgot his username.
Secondly, it would be a dick move to do so.
Thirdly, that was a long time ago. Its over for us both.
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HollyTheBlackCat Featured By Owner Mar 26, 2015  Student Digital Artist
Makes sense...
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vincentim59 Featured By Owner Feb 14, 2014
Didn't he is right ? about the last part. 
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:iconlegendofspyrothedrag:
no he's not :stare:
if I insulted you heavily (example) and even insulted your OWN belief (if you're following a religion) would you forgive me just by me saying "yo! forgeve me neggaa!!!!!!1" ? I don't think so. when I told him I'm not gonna forgive him (since he insulted my parents and insulting them is twice as worse as insulting me directly) he said that. that doesn't mean that "all Muslims kill but doesn't forgive"
I'm sure I did forgive some bitches in my school for harassing me :|
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vincentim59 Featured By Owner Feb 14, 2014
If it's on internet i don't care and just feed back with insult, and I do not wear enough importance to people for hated them, i get anger and beat him but after that i just dont care about his feel or even his forgiveness.

But i guess some people take this too seriously 
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:iconlegendofspyrothedrag:
I don't give a damn if you insulted me (as an example) but insulting my country, or my parents, or even worse. my BELIEF? sorry I can't stand that. :alien:
people keep calling me "cokstar fanboy" for liking GTA V in GTAForums. as I give an ass about it. I just tell them that if I was a fanGIRL, I would like any game R* makes. nothing more. nothing less.
but if someone said "fuck islam/your parents/libya"? I don't want to get another warning, but sorry I can't stand this one. even one of the stamps in my ID state it:
"insult me whatever how you want. but don't insult my Prophet since insulting my Prophet or my belief is worse than insulting me"
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vincentim59 Featured By Owner Feb 14, 2014
Well i respect culture but not religion i dont know how is libya but Islamist totally suck here, and i dont like when people speak always like "Allah .. " in the conversation all the time. I'm not a religious person and thats mean i dont want to hears anything about the beliefs of people.
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:iconlegendofspyrothedrag:
well just to clear stuff a bit-
God in Arabic is Allah :) that's why Muslims keep saying Allah instead of God.
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vincentim59 Featured By Owner Feb 15, 2014
Yeah i know ^^
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OverusedCupcakes Featured By Owner Dec 13, 2013

Wow, just... wow.




And where's his comment?

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:iconlegendofspyrothedrag:
since an admin told me to hide it, sorry I can't tell you/give you a link ^^;
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moonlitinuyasha1985 Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2013
Yeah!:(
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SonicWolvelina99 Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Like Respect, Forgiveness is something that is earned.
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CareBearKidd Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Forgiveness isn't something someone can force you to do anyway. It needs to be a personal choice... 
Anyone who tries to force you to forgive doesn't understand the concept. 
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Kelsey-Kat Featured By Owner Oct 3, 2013
I agree, but forgiveness is vital to ones health, so I do support encouraging it. Not demonizing people if they can't yet though.
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OverusedCupcakes Featured By Owner Oct 7, 2013
That is one deafening silence, Kelsey-Kunt.
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OverusedCupcakes Featured By Owner Oct 3, 2013
Hello, pedophile bitch.
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QueenOfHearts67 Featured By Owner Oct 3, 2013  Professional Digital Artist
Omg Finally someone makes this stamp

sorry im just

i use to be abuse by friends and so white knight blames me for the abuse :"C
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OverusedCupcakes Featured By Owner Oct 3, 2013
What the fuck is wrong with them... :iconverynotimpressedplz:
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QueenOfHearts67 Featured By Owner Oct 3, 2013  Professional Digital Artist
many things friend many things wrong with them :iconsadnessplz:
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AssassinWitch Featured By Owner Oct 3, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm going to use this.
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OverusedCupcakes Featured By Owner Oct 3, 2013
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